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Toby Keith – Heart To Heart (Stelen’s Song)

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Introduction:

Country music icon Toby Keith released “Heart to Heart (Stelen’s Song)” in 2021 on his album “Peso in My Pocket”. This poignant ballad transcends the realm of a typical country song, transforming into a deeply personal eulogy for a cherished friend and bandmate.

Carl “Stelen” Goff, Keith’s longtime fiddle player and bandleader, passed away in 2020 after a valiant battle with cancer. Their bond, forged over three decades of shared experiences, left an undeniable mark on Keith’s life. “Heart to Heart (Stelen’s Song)” serves as a testament to that profound friendship, a sincere expression of grief, and a celebration of the indelible impact Goff had on Keith’s musical journey.

While Keith himself penned the lyrics, the song’s production credits remain unattributed on the album. However, considering Keith’s frequent collaborations with producer James Stroud throughout his career, it’s likely Stroud played a role in shaping the song’s sonic landscape.

While the song’s chart performance isn’t publicly documented, its significance lies far beyond commercial success. “Heart to Heart (Stelen’s Song)” resonated deeply with fans who recognized the raw emotions embedded within the lyrics. It became an anthem for those grappling with loss, offering solace through its heartfelt portrayal of a deep and enduring friendship.

The song’s minimalistic arrangement further amplifies its emotional core. Delicate acoustic guitar strums weave a melancholic tapestry, punctuated by the mournful cry of the fiddle – Goff’s signature instrument. Keith’s signature baritone, usually brimming with a touch of bravado, takes on a softer, more vulnerable tone as he reminisces about their shared experiences on the road and in the studio.

“Heart to Heart (Stelen’s Song)” isn’t just a song; it’s a window into the soul of a grieving friend. It’s a reminder of the power of music to heal, to connect, and to immortalize the memory of those we hold dear.

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Lyrics:

I watched him throw his oatmeal bowl
Halfway across the kitchen floor
His momma said don’t let me see you do that anymore

And he let loose with a cup of orange juice
Right down the back of her dress
Without a doubt she lined him out
Then cleaned up the mess

Now he is just a chip off of the old block
Just like me we keep her on her toes a lot

But when he cries she’ll match him tear for tear
When he laughs she’ll grin from ear to ear
When he’s wrong they’ll stand there face to face
She can put him in his place
Side by side and hand in hand
She’ll talk with daddy’s little man
He knows that she’s done her part
I’m watching God’s love grow
Heart to heart

He’ll grow to be six foot three
Yeah he’s gonna be just like me
He’ll be tall and play football
But he’ll always be a momma’s boy

And when he cries she’ll match him tear for tear
When he laughs she’ll grin from ear to ear
When he’s wrong they’ll stand there face to face
She can put him in his place
Side by side and hand in hand
She’ll talk with daddy’s little man
He knows that she’s done her part
I’m watching God’s love grow
Heart to heart

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