Introduction:

There are love songs, and then there are songs that understand love — the messy, cyclical, bittersweet kind that never quite lets go. “Today I Started Loving You Again” is one of those rare ones. It doesn’t try to sound poetic or perfect. It just tells the truth — plain, aching, and beautiful in its simplicity.

Written by Merle Haggard and Bonnie Owens in 1968, the song came from a place of quiet reflection rather than heartbreak. After their own romantic relationship had changed but their friendship endured, they turned that complex feeling — that mix of loss, memory, and undying affection — into a melody that feels like a sigh. It’s not a song about falling in love again; it’s about realizing you never really stopped.

Merle Haggard and Bonnie Owens: A 51-year love story that transcended marriage and divorce

Merle’s voice carries the story like only he could — unpolished, steady, honest to the bone. There’s no drama in his delivery, just that deep, world-weary calm that says, “I’ve lived this.” And when Bonnie’s harmony joins him, it feels like the past and the present colliding — two souls singing from different sides of the same memory.

What makes this song so timeless is how universal it is. Everyone’s been there — thinking you’ve moved on, only to hear a song, see a face, or catch a scent that brings it all flooding back. That’s what “Today I Started Loving You Again” captures — that quiet, painful recognition that love doesn’t follow our timelines. It lingers. It waits. It surprises us when we least expect it.

Merle Haggard & Bonnie Owens/ friends 60s club pic | Flickr

Over the years, countless artists have covered it, but none have matched the intimacy of Merle and Bonnie’s version. It’s not just a duet — it’s a conversation between two people who’ve lived the words they’re singing. And that’s why it still breaks hearts softly, even decades later.

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