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Alan Jackson – If You Want To Make Me Happy

If You Want To Make Me Happy

Introduction:

Country music legend Alan Jackson released “If You Want To Make Me Happy” in 2008. The song became a staple of Jackson’s later career, finding a place on his studio album Good Time. A departure from some of his more upbeat tracks, “If You Want To Make Me Happy” dives into the world of heartbreak and shared commiseration.

The song, produced by Keith Stegall, a frequent collaborator of Jackson’s, is a slow, melancholic ballad driven by a simple acoustic guitar melody and the mournful wail of the steel guitar. Jackson’s smooth vocals weave a tale of two strangers brought together by their shared experience of romantic woes.

“If You Want To Make Me Happy” doesn’t shy away from the pain of heartbreak. The lyrics paint a picture of a lonely bar, where the narrator seeks solace in “Bourbon on the rocks” and the catharsis of “every sad song on the jukebox”. A chance encounter with another patron, someone who carries “that look that’s in your eyes”, a look that speaks of a recent heartbreak, sparks a connection. A shared understanding forms, a sense of solidarity in their mutual pain.

The song’s brilliance lies in its simplicity. There are no grand gestures or promises. The happiness offered is a shared misery, a temporary escape from the sting of loneliness through a connection forged in heartache. “If You Want To Make Me Happy” doesn’t offer solutions or easy answers, but instead provides a space for commiseration, a quiet understanding between strangers that sometimes, the best company in the depths of sadness can be found in someone else sharing your pain.

While not achieving the chart-topping success of some of Jackson’s other hits, “If You Want To Make Me Happy” resonated with fans. It became a favorite for its raw honesty and portrayal of a very real experience – the strange comfort found in shared sorrow. The song continues to be a popular choice for fans and a testament to Jackson’s ability to connect with his audience through relatable stories of love and loss.

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Lyrics:

What’ll it be he asked,What do you need tonightSomething cold to drown the fire,Something hot to stir one upI’ll make it simple I said,Just two things I’ll requestThat bottle by your shoulder,And some quarters for these dollars
‘Cause if you wanna make me happyPour me bourbon on the rocksAnd play every sad song on the jukeboxSongs of loving and leaving, lying and cheatingSongs of hurting and crying, and even songs of dyingIf you wanna make me happyPour me some bourbon on the rocksAnd play every sad song on the jukebox
A woman he asked,She left you I betI’ve seen that look that’s in your eyesOn a many other faceThat’s right I said,I deserved it I guessBut it still hurts me all aloneAt night there by myself
‘Cause if you wanna make me happyPour me bourbon on the rocksAnd play every sad song on the jukeboxSongs of loving and leaving, lying and cheatingSongs of hurting and crying, and even songs of dyingIf you wanna make me happyPour me some bourbon on the rocksAnd play every sad song on the jukebox
If you wanna make me happyPour me some bourbon on the rocksAnd play every sad song on the jukebox.

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